The words stuck in my crop, the agenda changed in an instant. When things calmed down a bit, my dear father taught us all a good life lesson from the events...

If a person's point of view and stance on life is positive, if he has adopted the acceptance of events without magnification, and has applied it in his life, it means that he has made a very good investment for himself. It is possible for the person who is the captain of his own ship to land the ship in the best way possible on stormy days, by being patient and grateful in good times and healthy days.

By using his brain, a person can change his perspective on everything. This is not a morning to evening phenomenon. It takes years of work and effort. Instead of the mentality that poisons life even in the most insignificant events, the eyes and heart that can see the good in every evil always light our way.

Developing the ability to adapt to events as soon as possible instead of struggling with situations that we cannot change and wasting energy is very beneficial for both ourselves and our environment.

Confidence, without ego, is a feature sought after by candlelight in our time. People walking around as me, me, me and placing themselves in the center of the world are everywhere. Ayşe Arman asked the other day, who was the last wise person you knew who influenced you? I call this question my father without thinking and with peace of mind. My humble and magnanimous father has set a role model for me and all his loved ones with his attitude and behavior in the sudden health problem he experienced. Being a special person, being a beautiful person, being a good person, being humble, being a grateful person and being able to keep all these valuable features in the same line in health, illness, good and bad days are the most precious things. We witnessed this ourselves.

Thank you very much to everyone who did not spare their wishes for good luck in happy days and get well soon in sickness. The way, knowing the method is not learned later, everything starts in the family and ends in the family. Our children continue to learn from us, and we continue to learn from our parents. Being a good son, being a good parent, and raising good-hearted, sensitive children are all in one package. Our children are reflections of us and we are reflections of our family. My father's advice to everyone when we look in the mirror and we should not be happy with what we see and try to be better people all the time...

May this article be a gift to the great hearts that know how to be grateful, to the hearts that have digested the wisdom with humility, and to the beautiful eyes that always manage to see the light in the dark...

There should be someone whose existence we are grateful for. Unmistakable, not deceiving, don't make you cry…

 N.Esra OSMANOĞLU SÖYLEMEZOĞLU

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